Few days back I was
chatting with a friend over a coffee. We were discussing about a common friend
and her situation. Our friend’s husband went missing couple of weeks back and
my friend mentioned about a vital aspect of human relationship – THE CLOSURE.
She mentioned that how our friend never got an opportunity to give it a closure
and that how she will always stay unsettled about what , why and how for the
rest of her life!
I couldn't have
agreed more with her. Everyone deserves a closure - closing of a loop - ending
of a chapter or perhaps a book may be. Everyone deserves to witness the destiny
of their fate. I strongly believe that if its not yet closed, it not yet
over. It is still on - at least in your mind!
I have met so many
people, have gone through so many experiences myself and I have always wondered
that how most of these people were scared to give a closure. Of course closures
are not often pleasant. But not having one isn’t a party either!
What they are
missing is this fantastic opportunity to watch fate come alive. It’s an opportunity
to set free, an opportunity to release oneself and someone else from that open
loop, an opportunity to give a reason to start a new chapter.
I have thought
this many times - how will I want to see my last few seconds in this life? And each
time my answer was that there shouldn't be any regrets, there shouldn't be any
part of my life which is unfinished, half done, not closed. I want my life's
balance sheet to tally - perfectly. No question should be left unanswered!
A perfect closure!
Love,
Jini
