Just like that!

It feels really good to be back on the blog, pouring my soul out in its purest form. Randomly putting the creations and the juggles of mind into words is a task that makes me content.

Someone rightly said that – ‘Don’t judge the other person with your life’s lenses. You do not know what battle he or she is fighting within.’ It’s true that the toughest battle is the one that we fight within and not without. It won’t let us eat, sleep and laugh peacefully.

Off late I am struggling to convince myself on what is surrender in true sense?  I always thought that surrender in any relationship means – to create space and openness to live life in its original form, to live without fear of being judge, to be in the feeling without any expectation and where one is allowed to have difference of opinion but that does not put differences in relationships.

Why is it that most human relations comes with its own do’s and don’t – “where you are expected to behave in a certain manner. If you don’t, you are not one of them”. One silly point of view suddenly makes you the bad cop and you are out of the circle!

Life is full of experience – some good experiences and some not so good ones. And in the process, the journey – we meet whole new bunch of people – all with different background and thought processes. That’s what makes the journey more enjoyable.

Somewhere along the way, we miss the essence. We start comparing and judging everything and everyone around us.  It baffles me how most of us – the human race likes to judge everything materialistically and need based. For e.g. at every stage of our life, we meet new people and make new friends. Why can’t we call our old friends or loved ones – just like that – without any need? Why do we never hesitate to ‘kill it’ – the old ties because we now have no more to gain from them and forget about what all we received in past?

I hope my fears don’t prove right. I hope that there still is lot of humanity and character left in us. I hope that we stop judging everything and open up to whole new possibilities.

Best,

Jini